BDSM Collar XL "FUCK ME"
Beg For It, Wear It, Own It.
Why hint when you can command? The FUCK ME BDSM collar is for the shameless, the insatiable, and the ones who want their desires written in bold, unmistakable letters. This collar doesn’t leave room for guessing — it’s a direct invitation and a challenge all in one.
Handcrafted in our Dutch workshop from signature PRO leather, this extra-wide 4cm (1.57 inch) sub collar wraps your neck in pure, provocative luxury. Front and center, FUCK ME is foil-stamped in crisp white — heat-pressed for a statement that’s impossible to ignore and impossible to resist.
The fit is flawless: an adjustable roller buckle closure and all matte black hardware guarantee a secure, badass look and feel. The heavy-duty D-ring is ready for a leash, cuffs, or whatever you’re craving tonight. Whether you’re bending over at a play party, demanding attention in the bedroom, or just loving your own reflection, this collar is your license to beg, tease, and tempt.
Why You’ll Love It:
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Extra-wide 4cm (1.57 inch) band for a bold, show-stopping statement
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FUCK ME stamped in white foil — heat-pressed for a striking, lasting finish
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All matte black hardware for a sleek, modern, and unapologetically dark vibe
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Available in 2 sizes, adjustable roller buckle closure for a flawless, comfortable fit
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Heavy-duty D-ring for leash, restraint, or whatever your scene demands
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Handmade in the Netherlands for the ultimate in quality and attitude
Ready to beg for it — or demand it? Strap on the FUCK ME BDSM collar, let your hunger show, and turn every glance your way into an invitation. Say it loud, wear it proud, and play by your own rules. 🖤
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